Final Tips on Independent Work Lists--Especially for Older Students

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Today I would like to leave you some tips for Independent Work Lists--especially for older students (junior high through high school). These will be in no true order--just some things that I want to re-emphasize from the younger ages as well as things that pertain only to olders.

So here we go:

1. Consider the document or chart that works best for your age child now. Most kids in junior high and high school no longer want cutsie charts. Once you decide you want a genuine paper document, then you have to decide how you want it filled in:

a. As he goes, he lists what he does each day, sort of a daily school journal.
b. You write in a planner each week for him for the following week (page number, number of pages, lesso number, etc.).
c. You have a standard daily Independent Work List that you create in your scheduling program or Excel---that you can customize when something changes, etc. You print this off, put it on a clip board, and have him highlight or mark off as he does things each day.


2. Consider if you are going to make his Independent Work List for him completely or if you will have his input. We liked to choose our high schoolers materials, schedules, lists, etc., with them, so that they have some input in the process--and to help model for them/teach them how to organize, prioritize, etc.

3. Still use some of the elements from the earlier suggestions (for younger kids) that are universal, such as:

a. School is your child's occupation. It is what he should be about during the day.
b. Put the daily tasks in sections according to time of day or importance--and also in order according to when they should be done.
c. Do your part to be sure that charts are updated, printed, and ready. I know from personal experience that if we are laxed in this--they become laxed real quick!
d. Have a system that works for you every day. Have his list on a clip board that he carries with him/keeps in his school area. Have him highlight as he does things. Have him leave it on your desk when he is done, etc.
e. Develop a "no exceptions" approach to daily independent work. A student doesn't go to basketball, girls group, youth group, etc., until his daily independent work list is done.


4. Have blanks on the chart to add in any work from outside classes, music lessons, Bible quizzing, etc.


5. Put things that are not dailies where ever they go. This was always a little bit difficult for me. Do twice weeklies go on Tuesday and Thursday (but Thursday is our lesson and errand day...). Do three times weeklies always go M-W-F, even though Wednesday is our "cottage class day" and extras do not get done on that day. This might take a while to get in the groove, but it is worth it to tweak things and make it work.


6. For junior high kids, consider that you might need smaller chunks (maybe two math sessions at 30 minutes a day, etc.). Again, you know your student and  your family situation, so do whatever works best for you.


7. Consider if you want this Independent Work List to be his total chart/list for all aspects of his day at older ages:

a. Do you want to put his devotions, music practice, and outside work on there too?
b. Do you want it to contain meetings/tutoring sessions with you?
c. Do you want it to also be his chore list?

There are some definite advantages to a junior high or high schooler having his day right in front of him in one spread sheet. However, this can also get overwhelming to some kids.


Feel free to ask questions here on FB about the Independent Work Lists--I will try to answer them. I can't imagine not having homeschooled without our three daily task lists: (1) Morning routines; (2) Chore charts; (3) Independent Work Lists!

F is for FUN: Some Fun Things We Have Done

I promised you a list of fun things we have done, so here it comes. It won't be long, but hopefully some of the ideas can prompt more ideas within you. If you have heard me speak of creating a love for learning, you may have already heard of some of them. 

I pray that your family can find that fine balance between fun and just plain hard work. Homeschooling is a long, sometimes lonely, and always challenging endeavor. As I have mentioned before, if we try to make it all fun and games all the time, our children will miss valuable lessons. However, if we omit fun from our homeschool entirely, we risk making everything else look better to our children than home. 

So...F is for FUN!

1. We always started our day with Bible reading/character reading together--and ended that reading with a fun chapter book that we worked through together. (This was after each person's morning routine and chore list, usually, and was sometimes during the kids' breakfast eating.) Everybody looked forward to our continued chapter book readings.

2. While we tried to get curriculum that fit each child's strengths, interests, learning styles, etc., and I (Donna) did the bulk of the choosing, for extra things, we took the kids with us to smaller conventions (or let them look in a catalog to choose), and they picked out their fun "extras"--including chapter books they wanted to read that year, educational coloring books, audios to listen to, etc. (Yes, we spent a lot on our kids' school. We live in a very old, tiny, non-fancy house with used furniture and old vehicles with lots of miles. We financially (and time and energy-wise) prioritized our kids' education and family times over everything else.)

3. While we did many weekday field trips, we didn't limit our field trips to school days. It wasn't uncommon at all for us to take a Saturday to go to museums and zoos with Dad or to plan a long weekend vacation museum-hopping in Chicago. The kids knew that their education was important to both Dad and Mom--and wasn't just something that Mom did, thought about, planned, and carried out.

4. In addition to our morning chapter book, I usually had chapter books going with various kids. I would have one that I read aloud to each of the three olders--plus another that we did as a family with Dad. Everybody worked hard so we could do our reading. 

5. I should say after the #4 reading one that we did not have access to television stations or even computers with our olders. We had a big old television hooked up to a vcr--and we limited everybody's watching to five hours per week (usually together). I need to include that here because when  you don't have television or computers, reading aloud together becomes a fun activity. While I don't think we should run away from our society (not have a computer, act like technology doesn't exist, etc.), we recommend highly limiting and controlling it so that the little things in life become sweeter. (See The Fun Factor in Homeschooling.)


6. Read the book/watch the movie. We didn't do this formally, but we did it quite often. With so many book/movie combos out today, I would make this a homeschool tradition!

7. Add fun subjects. Our kids always got to do extra things they enjoyed like art, music, pottery, sewing, science kits, etc. We tried to expose them to different fun things to see what they were good at and where there interests took them.

8. Make PE a family affair. We tried to do a lot of our kids' PE at home together. We had other families over to play. But we also just played as a family. We loved making up new games with various sizes and styles of balls!

9. Get cool school supplies. We didn't do back-to-school clothes shopping, but we did let them pick out their binders, pens, crayons, etc. They weren't limited to a list from a school with boring "16 Crayola crayons--no more, no fewer"---any style or color or pattern of school supply works at home! ;)

10. As our kids got older, we let them plan their subjects for the next year--and sometimes even choose the books.

11. Also, as our kids got older, we let them plan their school schedule/order with us for the year. As long as it worked and they completed their lists, they could continue to make choices about these things.

12. School with another family. We often did field trips, activities, unit studies, days away, etc. with another family or two of kids. We got together to do gingerbread houses and crafts, etc., every Christmas. 

13. Do anything different than what kids around you are doing! Our kids loved the fact that they didn't have to get on a bus early or they didn't have to stay inside at a desk if it was nice out. Or we could go to the park for lunch and some PE on any given day. Point out the fact that homeschooling affords us so many activities and opportunities that those in school can't do or enjoy.

14. Take fun field trips! If you have heard us speak or read our newsletter, you know that our older kids are extremely proud of the fact that they (along with Mom and Dad) slept at the top of the jungle gym at Science Central, in the snake room at the zoo, and on the soldiers' "cots" at the fort. Go for the unusual, and they will remember them and love homeschooling because of them.

15. Do storytime from birth. There is nothing like shared picture books with little kids. And there is definitely nothing like the memories of reading picture books every afternoon with momma for ten years. I'm telling you--this is what memories are made of.


I could go on forever and ever about how much we love homeschooling; how we tried to make it fun (but not so fun that normal wasn't enjoyed!); how we put our time, money, strength, and energy into raising our children in this homeschooling lifestyle--and how much they, as adults, are grateful to us for it. 

The Fun Factor in Homeschooling

Before I give a list of tips for making homeschooling fun (in another post), I want to address something that definitely keeps homeschooling from being fun--for parents--but even for the kids too (eventually!). This concept is one of indulgent homeschooling vs fun homeschooling.

Just like our children "don't like" this or "don't want" that or "have to have" this or "can't be happy without" this--and thus, are often not happy with the "normal" things of life--so it is with our children in homeschooling.

Before I come off sounding like an ogre, I want to assure you that we had a fun homeschool. If you were to ask our children (seven of them ages fifteen through thirty) if our homeschool was fun, you would hear answers like the following:

"Oh yeah! Dad used to use these huge red pressboard bricks to teach Bible stories. We would build the temple, Zacheus' tree, and even Jesus' boat!"

"Fun? How many kids do  you know who got to sleep at the top of the jungle gym at Science Central overnight---WITH their parents!"

"I can't imagine more fun than having your mom read to you for two hours every morning and two hours every afternoon. School was definitely fun at our house!"

"It was a blast! When Mom and Dad got us new books and other fun things from the homeschool convention, they would wake us up at midnight when they got home and show us everything and start reading them to us!"

However, one reason that our children found homeschooling fun was because everything didn't always have to be fun. Just like an indulgent child can't be happy unless she gets to have a friend overnight, order pizza, and buy new make up to do make-overs often, a homeschooled child will not think school is fun if he has to have fun all the time. I call this the fun factor in homeschooling.

So, strange as it may seem, my first suggestion to making school fun and helping your kids love learning and love homeschooling is to not try to make everything fun.

Our kids knew fun times were coming. They knew that Mom and Dad loved learning and loved homeschooling and would make things fun at times. They knew that we had something fun up our sleeves to pull out any time.

But they also knew that school was their occupation--and it was often just plain hard work sometimes. And it needed to be done. Day in and day out. Just like Dad went to his job and worked his tail off--so Mom and the kids do the same at home.

We didn't need to have bells and whistles all the time because they began to love normal (just like their parents did---hint hint--modeling!). They always knew the expectations, and they knew that every day they had to get up and follow a routine for learning, growing, becoming, and maturing.

They learned the joy of following a routine, setting goals and meeting them, completing tasks, and of gaining knowledge.

They knew that there were many things we do just because they are the right things to do. Every subject, every day doesn't have to be fun. Chores don't always have to be games and contests--or rewarded (though sometimes they were!).

We taught them a contentment in homeschooling--in our way of life---that made the fun even more fun, the special even more special, and the extraordinary even more extraordinary.

The Fun Factor in Homeschooling--the fun begins when the normal is good too.