Final Tips on Independent Work Lists--Especially for Older Students

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Today I would like to leave you some tips for Independent Work Lists--especially for older students (junior high through high school). These will be in no true order--just some things that I want to re-emphasize from the younger ages as well as things that pertain only to olders.

So here we go:

1. Consider the document or chart that works best for your age child now. Most kids in junior high and high school no longer want cutsie charts. Once you decide you want a genuine paper document, then you have to decide how you want it filled in:

a. As he goes, he lists what he does each day, sort of a daily school journal.
b. You write in a planner each week for him for the following week (page number, number of pages, lesso number, etc.).
c. You have a standard daily Independent Work List that you create in your scheduling program or Excel---that you can customize when something changes, etc. You print this off, put it on a clip board, and have him highlight or mark off as he does things each day.


2. Consider if you are going to make his Independent Work List for him completely or if you will have his input. We liked to choose our high schoolers materials, schedules, lists, etc., with them, so that they have some input in the process--and to help model for them/teach them how to organize, prioritize, etc.

3. Still use some of the elements from the earlier suggestions (for younger kids) that are universal, such as:

a. School is your child's occupation. It is what he should be about during the day.
b. Put the daily tasks in sections according to time of day or importance--and also in order according to when they should be done.
c. Do your part to be sure that charts are updated, printed, and ready. I know from personal experience that if we are laxed in this--they become laxed real quick!
d. Have a system that works for you every day. Have his list on a clip board that he carries with him/keeps in his school area. Have him highlight as he does things. Have him leave it on your desk when he is done, etc.
e. Develop a "no exceptions" approach to daily independent work. A student doesn't go to basketball, girls group, youth group, etc., until his daily independent work list is done.


4. Have blanks on the chart to add in any work from outside classes, music lessons, Bible quizzing, etc.


5. Put things that are not dailies where ever they go. This was always a little bit difficult for me. Do twice weeklies go on Tuesday and Thursday (but Thursday is our lesson and errand day...). Do three times weeklies always go M-W-F, even though Wednesday is our "cottage class day" and extras do not get done on that day. This might take a while to get in the groove, but it is worth it to tweak things and make it work.


6. For junior high kids, consider that you might need smaller chunks (maybe two math sessions at 30 minutes a day, etc.). Again, you know your student and  your family situation, so do whatever works best for you.


7. Consider if you want this Independent Work List to be his total chart/list for all aspects of his day at older ages:

a. Do you want to put his devotions, music practice, and outside work on there too?
b. Do you want it to contain meetings/tutoring sessions with you?
c. Do you want it to also be his chore list?

There are some definite advantages to a junior high or high schooler having his day right in front of him in one spread sheet. However, this can also get overwhelming to some kids.


Feel free to ask questions here on FB about the Independent Work Lists--I will try to answer them. I can't imagine not having homeschooled without our three daily task lists: (1) Morning routines; (2) Chore charts; (3) Independent Work Lists!

Independent Work Lists for Elementary Children

I is for INDEPENDENT WORK!

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If you don't start Independent Work Charts/Lists with your littles, you will definitely want to start it in elementary school after your child learns to read!

 (Some people feel that they have very little to put in an Independent Work Chart for little kids. We always managed to find things as I felt it kept my littles learning and exploring all the time--and it helped my preschoolers to NEVER be bored!)i

Here are some tips for creating Independent Work Lists for elementary children:


1. Either make it on a chart that the child uses wipe and write markers and mount it somewhere--or make it in Excel (or your favorite record keeping program) and place it on a thin clip boards.

Trust me: loose papers never make it back to mom at the end of the day. (Spoken from true experiences--plural--you would think I would have learned this the first time or two! ;) )




2. Put things in the order of importance on the chart--in the order that you want them done.



3. And/or put things in sections.

I used to have mine in order and sections--the first so many items needed done before the child met with Mom or before the child had a morning snack or before lunch chores, or whatever. Never underestimate the value of teaching children time management, prioritizing, etc. via these daily checklists.



4. Explain to your child that this is his daily accountability list.

He is to get these things done each day. (Hint: We taught our children from their earliest recollection of school that school is their occupation. It was what they were supposed to be about every day. No questions asked. No exceptions (unless we parents wanted an exception for sickness or family trips, etc.--in other words, the child doesn't choose to do school or not do school--ever).



5. For things that you are uncertain of/change-ables, put time or generic wording, such as "30 minutes of uninterrupted CQLA work" or "All CQLA assignments from previous meeting with Mom," etc.



6. Be sure to include drill work, silent reading, etc.--all the extras that you want him to do each day.

 (I even put the things that they would often do as I read aloud on this list in the section marked "During Read-Aloud"--such as coloring in educational coloring book, penmanship page, building something with Legos, etc.)



7. Be sure there is a time in which it is turned in each day.

This is kind of another subject, but it fits here as well: A child should not go to basketball practice, Girl Scouts, youth group, or any other activity if he doesn't do his school. Period. We have so many parents come up to us at conventions and say, "I just can't get my fifteen year old to finish his school each day, and he keeps getting further and further behind." Then we ask, "Does he go to sports practice in the afternoon? Does he go to youth group that night?' etc. etc. None of those things should ever happen if he doesn't do his school. School is non-optional.

If your child's independent list is on a clip board, he can simply put the clip board on your desk at the end of the day--all checked off and ready for the next day.


8. The Independent Work Checklist is, in part, to help keep the child moving as you are working with other kids, walking your college kids through a difficulty on the phone, or helping Grandma with something. In other words, you want to teach your student to get up and start on the list right away--and to go back to the list any time he is not meeting with you or doing chores, etc. (I even put things like "Read to Jonathan for 15 minutes" and "30 minutes of morning devotional book and journaling" on the list--everything the child does (outside of chores) was listed on this chart.


I just can't stress enough the benefits of the Independent Work Lists--for Mom and for the student. It takes away gray areas of parenting (something crucial that we teach in our parenting seminars). It helps the child become an independent learner. It teaches many character qualities--perseverance, prioritizing, resourcefulness, responsibility, diligence, timeliness, and much more. Yeah, I am pretty crazy about my thirty years of Independent Work Lists! ;)

B is for Back to School!

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B is for BACK-TO-SCHOOL!

Do you start back on the traditional school schedule? Or do you school in the summer to get some days in? Or do you school year round and take breaks throughout the year?

Homeschooling provides flexibility in all areas (not just starting school but literally EVERYTHING) that we don't even begin to appreciate fully. (I didn't until my kids started taking college classes, and they were so locked in to schedules and no time off!!!!)





B is for BACK-TO-SCHOOL!

Do you have a command center? Regardless of whether you use charts, sticker posters, wipe and write, or clip boards for your schedule/chores/organizational systems, I recommend you follow this one tip first:

Get the first hour of the day down pat before you try to "perfect" everything else.

When the first hour of your day is good, the whole day can be good!

http://www.remodelaholic.com/2013/07/family-command-centers





B is for BACK-TO-SCHOOL!

While we are blessed not to have to buy, buy, buy...clothes, supplies, etc., every August just because everybody else is (sometimes I do think it would be fun to go "back to school" clothes shopping with the kids though!), do pay attention to the sales during this time.

For example, we use a lot of three-pronged, two-pocket folders for each monthly unit of work (for storage when the month is done), and those are available now for fifteen cents each vs. up to sixty cents each during the "off season."

Plus, I just have to get some scented markers, cool sticky notes, or other fun thing for the teacher! 

What Would You Do With a Five Year Old?

I was recently asked what my "educational expectations" would be with a five year old. Now, this fall marks our thirtieth year of homeschooling. Through the years, we have ebbed and flowed with the trends of homeschooling just like all other long-term homeschoolers. However, there are some things that have always stayed the same for us:

(1) Teach obedience before starting school

(2) Put relationships above academics

(3) Put God first, then marriage, then children, then others

And many more!

My expectations for five year olds still haven't changed! If I had a sweet, wonderful, amazing five year old, this is what I would do! (Btw, four to six year olds are the greatest kids ever!)

1. Obedience. We can't expect children to do school work if they will not make their beds, brush their teeth, come when called, etc. Obedience is a pre-requisite to bookwork--always has been in our homeschool. Take it from an old mama---school is so much better with a six year old in kindergarten who obeys than it is with a five year old in kindergarten who doesn't obey.

2.  Morning routine. If our kids couldn't do a simple morning routine chart of making their beds, grooming, putting away their own toys and books, "reading" a picture Bible (or doing a Bible book and audio set), and getting completely ready for the day without a big fuss, I didn't do bookwork with them. (See number one!) I talk about morning routine charts in Raising Kids With Character (formerly Positive Parenting) here and here and here and here .

3. Chores. Once a five year old is known for first time obedience and following through on his morning routine, I add chores to his schedule. You can read more about developing chores for this age group here and here and here  and here and here .

4. Room time. I used room time from ten to fourteen months (playpen time) up through age six or seven, depending on how much the child could join us for older kids' school. The reason I list it here as an expectation for a five year old is that I believe room time has so many educational benefits, namely those of increasing a child's concentration, creativity, independence, and risk taking (all found to be important factors in studies about children who were "natural readers"--that is, they learned to read without instruction--this is important because if it helps a child become a natural reader, it can also help a child become a good reader in general). You can find out more about room time here and here and here and here,

5. Bible time. I would have the kindergarten join us for Bible time as well as having a "little kids" Bible time during the morning. I liked to put this after morning routine and chores, so we had an order that put character and faith before academics. It might work better for some to do it during story time. (I used what I called "interval Bible training," meaning that we did various Bible teachings from sun up until sun down, so that they were always being trained in Bible stories, character, doctrine, hymns, songs, etc. all the time. For instance, we would use Bible on audio during morning chores, hymns and praise music during breakfast, Bible story read alouds in the morning, more in depth Bible studies with the olders during "unit studies," Bible audios and/or videos during room time (almost always audios; I wasn't big on videos as I wanted them to "make the pictures in their minds"); Bible stories and character stories during story time, audios as they were falling asleep; Bible reading and singing at dinner; Bible stories at bedtime, etc. Find out more about what we used during this age here and here and here

6. Informal learning time. We had an adage that "we would never teach a young child anything formally that could be taught informally." Therefore, when it came to pre-reading and pre-math skills, we were extremely diligent to "teach while we are in the way with them." In other words, rhyming words, initial consonant sounds, ending consonant sounds, letter recognition, beginning math concepts (counting, recognizing numbers, less than/greater than, and much more) can all be taught informally, and we did. We also used picture books, puzzles, games, manipulatives, audios, videos, computer games, felt activities, toys, blocks....anything! I recommend building this time into a kindergarteners day--either through room time or through a learning center or table time where activities are set up for him, etc. 

7. Formal learning. We only used workbooks with our five, six, and seven year old (non-readers) when they were set on numbers one through six above--and only if the child wanted them and enjoyed them. There are colorful, wonderful kindergarten workbooks available through Timberdoodle. Here are some other formal learning tips for this age:

a. If your kindergarten student is ready to learn to read, I don't recommend using a complete kindergarten/first grade curriculum to do this. Learning to read doesn't need to take three to five years. If you get a good program, a child can learn to read in three to six months if readiness is in place. (Call to order my audio on Teaching Reading in the Homeschool for more information on reading readiness, choosing readers, and choosing a phonics program.) I recommend a couple that I have used or had friends use, but there are many good ones out there that teach reading only (i.e. not complete language arts at this level) and use a word family phonics approach combined with readers. Some of my reading program reviews are found at Raising Kids With Character for Phonics Tutor and Saxon Reading.

b. If you do want to get an entire kindergarten program, do not get a textbook-driven approach. Again, Timberdoodle has wonderful preschool and kindergarten programs with many hands on and fun activities included. 

c. Make kindergarten fun. If I had kindergarten to do over again, I would do all of the tips above and get Timberdoodle's kindergarten fun things, a colorful math program that has manipulatives (Math-U-See and/or Saxon kindergarten math are very hands on!), and Five in a Row (and choose the activities that you want to do and leave the rest). But again, I would only do that after the first six things above are met!


As for general expectations, here are some other tips:

(1) Morning routines, morning chores, sitting during reading, room time, etc., first (have I mentioned this yet?)

(2) An hour or so of time with you either in fun learning (see c. above) and/or in learning to read, preferably in the morning.

(3) Story time, room time, quiet time, book and audio sets, etc. for independent learning all built into the schedule.

(4) Interweave free time with all of the above. It is my experience that four to six year olds who are not doing "formal" more all day type of school end up being bored and restless when their days are not predictable. 

Hope this helps you with your five year old! Most of all, enjoy them! These should be some of the sweetest days of parenting! I know they were for me, and I want that for every mama out there! :)


P.S. If you have not been a reader of Positive Parenting/Character Training From the Heart, I hope you will join us over there. It is Character Training From the Heart for the blog and the FB page is still Positive Parenting 365. I talk about all aspects of Christian parenting from infancy through young adults/college age. I love parenting. Here are some general RKWC links that might pertain to your questions:

A. Toddlers and Preschoolers 
B. Reading Instruction 
C. Reviews of Materials
D. Schedules 
E. Chores